Right there with ya on the no-decorations/no-festivities thing. I haven't done anything and I'm not going to. The day itself? I may cook a ham. Not sure. Maybe I'll just fry up a pound of bacon.

Also right there with ya on the disgust irritation on the family members being jerks. I'm not feeling like I want to talk to any of my siblings --- my sister included --- for 6 months at least. I need a break from all of them. Congrats on the impending aunthood, though. The family members are fine with they are too little to talk back to you, I find.

Pass along any good recs you get, okay?